I have lost track of how long it has been since Slate rose to the very top of the journalism firmament for me. Possibly it was when Dahlia Lithwick, who is unsurpassed as as legal writer and justice warrior, published this very smart and very funny piece. Or when she wrote a crowd-sourced, legal-themed chick-lit novel (really). I don’t remember, but it definitely had to do with her.
In any event, aside from publishing a book, publishing an essay in Slate has been a dream of mine for a very long time. In a million years I would not want to relive the heartbreak that led to this piece, but if our story can help even one struggling family feel less alone, then it was not in vain.
Also, I published an essay in freaking Slate!!!! I am actually pinching myself.
Please read, share, and send me any and all of your thoughts (except if they’re trollish, which I know they won’t be).
And welcome to all the new subscribers! I am so glad you are here.
Ok, I’ll stop chattering and let you read in peace. But I’m biting my nails over here, hoping you like it: Lost in the Storm.
Hi Jane, I felt compelled to message you from Australia where I have just finished reading about your journey with Ash. Firstly, thank you for being brave enough to tell your story with such rawness and honesty. I can imagine that could have made you feel very vulnerable.
Secondly, to your daughter Ash. She may not be able to comprehend quite what this article you wrote means in relation to her, but she now has the support, love and understanding from girls just like her across the globe and that people that are wishing for her health and happiness world-wide.
Thirdly, what a strong, loving, kind, capable, determined, educated, warrior you are, Jane. I hope that you are getting the support you need, mentally, emotionally and physically that you need to keep doing what you’re doing for Ash. Lastly, my daughter and I are going through a very similar thing, also. Although you may feel alone or perhaps misunderstood in your journey, I can tell you right now that by telling your story you have created a greater village of support, educated those who lack understanding, and highlighted to many that they are not alone. Thank you so very much for articulating your lives, sharing with us your story and please know if you want a pen pal in Australia, there is one here, ready and waiting.
Oh, Jane. Oh, Ash. What a tour de force. I send hugs. So inadequate. But please accept what will be an outpouring of caring and rooting for you all. And keep writing. Please.